According to dictionary.com the definition of vulnerability is the quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally. What's missing in this definition is that vulnerability can expose you to the possibility of healing, love, support and community. The definition on dictionary.com makes vulnerability seem like … Continue reading The Art of Vulnerability
My single sistahs are on my spirit today. I feel like they need to hear this message. I feel like as single women we are putting so much pressure on ourselves to live up to these standards. We think we should be married and having kids at a certain age. We think we should be … Continue reading Single Ladies: Take Your Time
Nia's Open Heart and Open Mind started 1 year ago today!!! I use to blog years ago on Blogger but didn't do it for long and wasted really taking it as serious as I would have liked. February 10th, 2018 I decided to relaunch my blog and create material that would touch people and have … Continue reading Happy 1 year Blogversary!!!!
I hear the words all the time, "But he loves me" And I'm forced to return the harsh truth of explaining that, "That isn't love" People have a misconception that love is suppose to hurt because you go through problems and arguments in relationships. Yes couples argue. Yes couples have disagreements. But love isn't suppose … Continue reading Love Isn't Suppose To Hurt: Walk Away
Forgiveness is the HARDEST thing to do to most people. Most people have this misconception about forgiveness. They think if you forgive a person you are weak, or you are letting them run all over you. What most people don't realize is that forgiveness is for YOU. When you hold on to pain and misery, … Continue reading Why Are You Holding On: The Road To Forgiveness