In today's society it is so easy to throw a person away or give up. It's harder to fight and stick it out when things get rough. I'm not just referring to relationships; I'm referring to family dynamics as well. Sometimes we will forgive a mate for things we throw our family members away for. … Continue reading It’s Not Always Easy; But It’s Worth It!
According to Google love is defined as: noun:love; plural noun: loves 1.an intense feeling of deep affection.a deep romantic or sexual attachment to someonea great interest and pleasure in somethinga person or thing that one loves verb: love; 3rd person present: loves; past tense: loved; past participle: loved; gerund or present participle: loving 1.feel a deep romantic or sexual attachment … Continue reading Is love Unconditional or really Conditional?
The strong friend seems to be the go to person. There seems to be one person in a sisterhood or brotherhood that people go to for advice and guidance, but can you be the strong friend for your strong friend? Can you be there for your strong friend when they need you? Can you reciprocate … Continue reading Can you be the STRONG friend, for your STRONG friend?
Can you really be friends with your ex? Can you have a genuine relationship with someone you once loved? Will old feelings come back? Will you resent them for the past? Are you mature enough to see them with someone else? Do you want to be friends? I have been avoiding this topic because I … Continue reading Can you REALLY be friends with an EX?
My single sistahs are on my spirit today. I feel like they need to hear this message. I feel like as single women we are putting so much pressure on ourselves to live up to these standards. We think we should be married and having kids at a certain age. We think we should be … Continue reading Single Ladies: Take Your Time
Nia's Open Heart and Open Mind started 1 year ago today!!! I use to blog years ago on Blogger but didn't do it for long and wasted really taking it as serious as I would have liked. February 10th, 2018 I decided to relaunch my blog and create material that would touch people and have … Continue reading Happy 1 year Blogversary!!!!
You are the best example of how you want to be loved and treated. As people we want to be loved. That's natural. We want to be loved my friends, co-workers, family, your partner, but when we don't get that love we tend to question ourselves and their loyalty. The real question should be, "Do … Continue reading Love YOURSELF….The Way You Want Someone Else To LOVE YOU!
"Expectations are the doorways to disappointment" This started off as a simply Facebook status and conversation I was having with a sister in my community. Expectations are the doorways to disappointments simply means that when you have expectations of someone, or a situation you are setting yourself up to be disappointment. Especially when those expectations … Continue reading Expectations are the Doorways to Disappointment…One-sided that is.
As mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, business owners....the list can go on we tend to put other peoples needs and wants before our own. We don't take the time to check on our mental state and make sure we are good before anything else. WE CAN NOT TAKE CARE OF ANYBODY ELSE UNLESS WE TAKE CARE … Continue reading Taking Care Of YOUR Mental State
I hear the words all the time, "But he loves me" And I'm forced to return the harsh truth of explaining that, "That isn't love" People have a misconception that love is suppose to hurt because you go through problems and arguments in relationships. Yes couples argue. Yes couples have disagreements. But love isn't suppose … Continue reading Love Isn't Suppose To Hurt: Walk Away